Husband’s female colleague is warmer than me in bed
Interviewed: Tian Rui Occupation: Administrative staff that day, at the address Tian Rui told me, after two trips, I came to the door of a community.
A beautiful woman stood there looking out.
After seeing me, she immediately greeted her and said, “I’m really sorry. If it wasn’t for the child’s sudden change of drawing time, let’s go to a close place and run so far on a cold day. Come in.
He pointed his finger at the balcony of her house and said that my house is on the second floor.
Through the glass I saw three or two pots of green plants on the windowsill.
Tian Rui’s family is small, one room and one living room.
Without being deliberately renovated, she manifests her deft intentions everywhere.
All the curtains are small floral patterns, and she sewed them stitch by stitch.
A small Christmas tree is placed on the writing table under the window, and the colorful light bulbs are sparkling, which is very festive.
Tian Rui said with a smile, that was what my daughter asked me to buy.
After buying it, she decorated it for a long time alone.
Knowing that an aunt is coming to the house today, he made me light up.
She waited for everyone to see her work.
My sight stayed on a magnified photo of the wooden board, almost taking up the replacement wall.
In the photo, she and her daughter are standing among the blooming spring flowers, and her daughter is whispering into her ear.
Tian Rui said that it was taken by the child’s father in the park a few years ago.
She liked the photo so much that it was hung on a wooden board after being enlarged.
This photo shows me the happy times this family once had.
The child’s father should be what Tian Rui said on the phone, the man she couldn’t hate.
Only when people have experienced certain things can they know that everything will change.
Just like me, I never believed that my marriage would go wrong, but the problem went wrong.
Tian Rui withdrew several albums from high blood pressure, and she took out one of them. The suede on the surface of the album was a little bald.
Opening the title page, I saw the above: Congratulations to Wu for winning the second prize in the speech contest.
Then Tian Rui pointed to a boy and said to me, he is Wu, the child’s father.
I saw a young, handsome face, and I didn’t know why I was laughing.
Wu and I are college classmates. We started dating when we were in the second year of college. At that time, he just broke up with a girl from the south and was very distressed.
We are both cadres of the class. A lot of things in the class are done by the two of us, some sort of organizing an event or buying a prize.
Sometimes he’s suddenly depressed, so I tell him a joke to make him happy.
Just like this, he slowly fell in love with me.
The boys in our class were horribly jealous of Wu, saying that he had “occupied” the two most beautiful girls in the class.
The next college time is the happiest day for both of us.
He treats me very well, and he likes the things I like to eat and play.
I like to eat lychee. He ran to the morning market early in the morning to buy it, and then stood downstairs waiting for me.
I am really touched.
You know, his nickname in the class is “not enough sleep.”
In junior year, my mother asked me to take him home to see.
You do n’t believe it. The prospective son-in-law came to see his mother-in-law on the first day, so why not dress up?
He was lying upright, wearing a military yellow cotton jacket, with a button off and twisting the wire.As soon as I opened the door and saw his dress, I was so angry that I didn’t know what to say.
He didn’t care, he said hello to my mother generously.
He also did a good job at dinner. He was never frightened, and the more people he became, the more he became more active.
After going out, I asked him how to dress like this so that he dared to come to my house. He said nothing about it. Your mother was looking at me, not the clothes she wore.
After graduating from university, he was assigned to work in a cultural unit, and I went to a state-owned enterprise as an administrative staff.
We both discussed saving some money before getting married, so don’t put too much burden on both parents, because we are the bosses at home, and we have brothers and sisters below.
Two years later, we had a wedding.
Wu has never advocated having children, and he finds raising children too troublesome.
Later I was pregnant for the second time, and my health was not good, so I stayed.
Don’t look at him saying that he doesn’t want a child, but his daughter was so happy that he couldn’t even close his mouth.
She even looked at the shit pulled by her daughter for a long time, and said, this is what our kids pull?
Wu knows his children very well and is a qualified father.
He has always been considerate to me from getting married to having children.
My unit is far away from home, and I ‘m tired from commuting to work every day. He took all the housework from marriage to divorce. It ‘s been about ten years.
His sister said to me, my brother can’t see you for a while, so he will look for you.
I’ll get married in the future, and it’s enough to find a man like my brother.
Tian Rui embedded her fond memories of the past, then she shook her head gently, and gave out a helpless sigh.
She said that for many years, now it looks like yesterday.
At this time, the phone rang.
I heard her say, um, that’s fine . I have a guest here, let’s do it first.
After talking, I hung up.
She told me that the call was from Wu.
His daughter was a little uncomfortable yesterday. He asked how was it.
I never expected that divorce would happen to me, and it was still the most trivial kind. My husband had an affair.
After giving birth to a child, my work has not been smooth, and there is a place in the bureau. I want to be transferred to the bureau, and I discuss it with Wu to let him find someone to think of a way.
Next door, I asked him if he was looking for someone. What happened?
He always said to wait and hold on.
The matter was dragged on for several months. Seeing that the quota in the bureau had made others take the lead, for this matter, I was so angry with him that I had said a lot of hurtful things.
Now think about it, I was putting too much pressure on him, he was just a literati, and his personality was not good at welcoming horses.
But when people are angry, why think so much?
Later, my brother got married, and my mother tenderly expressed my difficulties at home. I heard it, which meant that I was paying more.
Just this little brother, just go out.
But we did n’t have any money at that time, so I asked Wu to borrow from a friend. He did n’t want to say that he did n’t open his mouth.
I said you can’t be a little helpless about our family.
I can’t do my job. I can always borrow some money.
He didn’t speak, picked up the remote and changed channels.
Before these things, I always admired Wu deeply. Looking at his perspective was looking up, but later he could n’t do anything. I just read books and talked with a group of literati friends. I think about himThere have been changes.
He is a very sensitive person, he doesn’t say anything, but he knows it well.
At that time, my mood was particularly bad, and even the sound of his eating was offensive.
Later, he borrowed thousands of dollars from his mother.I think the cracks between us should have existed at that time.
One day, my sister called and told me that she saw Wu across the road and called him, but he didn’t hear it.
She described to me that her brother-in-law was riding a bicycle to pick up the child, and the whole person seemed to glow with joy as if he had a second life.
He had just returned from a business trip.
When I heard my sister say, I had a bad feeling in my heart, and I didn’t even know what kind of feeling it was, but I felt very upset.
It turns out that he had an affair with a woman in the same office during that business trip.
The woman was enthusiastic. Her husband was a soldier and he was away from home for many years.
And my health has not been good. He has rarely been satisfied with sex.
Their relationship developed very quickly and enthusiastically. I found in his pocket a letter that the woman wrote to him, and she gave him an idea, how could we divorce the two of us.
I began to live and die and quickly lost weight.
He felt sorry for me and could be controlled by that woman again.
He had already moved out and lived there. One day, he came back to get his clothes. At that time, his daughter was less than three years old and he was stopped at the door to let him go.
He even fooled his daughter and refused to stay with the child for a minute. After he left, his daughter was crying sadly in my arms.
We left in the end and he jumped off the building and tried to beat me.
I know he won’t really jump off the building, but I’m still afraid of something unexpected. I don’t want to feel guilty for life.
I thought I would not love anymore, but the appearance of the old iron made my feelings suspicious again.
I thought that he would go hand in hand with him in the second half of my life, but he did not expect that he would leave me first and divorce. After that, I lived with my daughter alone.
I left my original workplace and moved to a new business.
Later, a good friend introduced me to an object, an engineer named Lao Tie, one year older than me, but no children.
We met at a friend’s house. The first impression he gave me was average, and he impressed me very well.
My friends polished my mind, and I had to look around with him and talk about it.
Lao Tie was very active and often called me and asked for warmth.
At the beginning I was out of politeness, I was really embarrassed to pick up the phone and put it down.
After a long time, if he didn’t call, he always felt like something was missing.
In the relationship, I learned the reason for his divorce.
His wife’s character is very irritable, and several times because of family chores, he even got into his unit, making him very upset in the unit.
Because he couldn’t be born, his wife became a lot of doubts. If he said one more word to the woman, he would not find him happy.
In the end he couldn’t bear it and divorced his wife.
Lao Tie loves children and often buys small gifts for my daughter.
At first his daughter was cold to him, but he was very patient, accompanied her to look at her, and played with her. Slowly, her daughter’s attitude towards him also changed a lot.
Whenever something happened, I said, ask Uncle Tie for help.
After we spent almost a year, he told his mother about our two.
I went to his house once, and his mother looked at me with critical eyes, which made me very uncomfortable.
Later, I learned that his mother thought that I was carrying a child, and she wanted the old iron to find a younger one and give birth to the old iron.
Lao Tie kept comforting me and said, it’s all right, I like who is my business, she can’t control it.
I rely more and more on old iron.
Every night we will talk on the phone and talk about something unpleasant in the unit.
He is particularly enlightening, and analyzes things very well.
Whatever happened later, I would ask him to help me get an idea.
Once, the child was at the grandmother’s house, and I had a meal with a colleague. I came home late, and someone almost snatched the bag at the door. When I got home, I was shocked. When I called Lao Tie, my hands kept trembling.
As soon as Lao Tie heard my voice, he knew something was happening and asked me what happened.
I told him just now.
He said, you wait, I’ll go right away.
I said no, you are so far away so late, I will be fine after a while.
He said no, let me wait for him at home.
Half an hour later, he appeared in front of me, held me in his arms, coaxed me like a child, and I was very wronged and wept.
He coaxed me for a long time, warmed me up and washed my feet, and checked all the pins of the windows and doors before leaving.
One day after each month, Lao Tie came to my house and told me that he wanted to work in Japan, and his brother was over there.
Because he has the skills, he wants to earn more money there, which saves me so hard to work.
He asked me to agree or disagree, and if he did not agree, he would not go.
I actually didn’t want him to leave me, but I nodded at the look of his longing look.
The law on going abroad went smoothly. The day he left, I didn’t go to the airport to see him because his mother was going.
When he arrived in Japan, he called me every two days.
He said a year would soon pass.
When he earns money, he buys a house and a car for me to live the happiest life.
We are always in touch.
Six months have passed.
One day, I suddenly thought that the old iron hadn’t called for several days. I thought maybe he was busy.
Waited another week and still didn’t have his phone.
I don’t think so, but I don’t know his phone number over there.
After thinking for a long time, I had to ask our introducer to go to his house to ask what was going on.
When my friend came back, I saw that her face wasn’t right, and I knew something was wrong.
I asked what happened to the old iron, and she sat there silently.
I said that you wanted to die to me, what happened to the old iron.
My friend looked at my face and said, you need to be mentally prepared.
She paused and said, Lao Tie, he had not been rescued in Japan because of a heart attack, and no one was there.
After hearing this, I felt like my heart was violently plucked, and it hurt me to paralyze the ground.
I lay in bed for more than a week.
I don’t understand why God is so cruel to me.
As soon as I was confident in life, it made all this disappear from my eyes.
I wanted to take another look at him, even if it was a photo, but we found that we didn’t even have a photo.
I think he sent my sweater to cry, but good people think it will be gone without it?
It has been more than a year since this time last year, I knew that the old iron had left me.
The departure of Lao Tie made me feel particularly tired and helpless.
I passed a video store that day, and heard a song, a female voice sang: I think I will always be so lonely in my life, I think I will be lonely and lonely in my life . I bought this disc and came back to listen repeatedly,Because this song is what I feel in my heart.